I read both sites. What stands out to me most about internet message forums is that many problems could be avoided with good communication. If you have a problem with site content ask a moderator about it first. If it's not a problem with them then let it go. If you have a personal issue with someone, email them directly without broadcasting it first. Moderators are designated to handle problems. Some sites have good moderators, other sites not so much, I have seen it both ways. Bottom line let's just enjoy this great hobby, life is too short.